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The Courage to Stay Journal: An Affair Recovery Workbook for the Hurt Partner Paperback – November 23, 2024
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Betrayal leaves you feeling shocked, scared, and overwhelmed. In a split second, your world is shattered, trust is destroyed, and everything you thought you knew has turned upside down. The Courage to Stay Journal offers a compassionate, evidence-based path through this pain toward safety, peace and reconnection.
In her first book, The Courage to Stay, Dr. Kathy introduced a revolutionary framework for couples who want to heal from an affair together. Now, she extends her guidance to hurt partners through an interactive journal, thoughtfully designed to help them navigate the complex thoughts and emotions of betrayal recovery and post-infidelity stress disorder.
Each chapter of The Courage to Stay Journal begins with a compassionate essay offering understanding, hope, and coping strategies, followed by 10 guided journal prompts to help you process your feelings, release pain, and find relief. Filled with inspiring quotes from affair survivors and motivational recovery stories, this workbook draws on Dr. Kathy's clinical expertise, personal experience with betrayal, and proven therapeutic approaches like CBT, trauma recovery, attachment theory, and more, across 10 comprehensive chapters designed to guide you through healing and growth.
With The Courage to Stay Journal, you’ll discover how to:
- Overcome overwhelm and hopelessness, so you can cope with painful emotions.
- Challenge self-doubt and negative beliefs, allowing you to rebuild your self-confidence.
- Work through your rage and anger, enabling you to guide it into healthy, constructive outlets.
- Calm your triggers and fears, allowing you to go through your day in peace.
- Overcome obsessive and intrusive thoughts, helping you stop constantly revisiting the pain.
- Defeat depression and sadness, allowing you to feel like yourself again.
- Grow through grief, so you can develop more resilience and self-compassion.
- Accept what you cannot forgive, because forgiveness is complicated.
If you’re ready to find hope and rebuild after betrayal, The Courage to Stay Journal will guide toward healing and lasting happiness.
“Having counseled couples for over 30 years, I have witnessed firsthand the profound pain and turmoil that an affair can bring. Dr. Kathy has crafted an extraordinary, one-of-a-kind resource for betrayed partners seeking to navigate this devastation with courage and resilience. Her workbook is a masterful blend of compassionate guidance and practical tools."
– Cindy M. Fazendin, LMFT, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
“As a therapist who has worked on relationship issues with clients for decades, I found this workbook for betrayed partners to be the best I have ever read. This is a clear blueprint to guide you to a better understanding and potentially a better, stronger relationship than before the affair.”
-Shirley Furman, MFT, PMHNP, Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner
“Dr. Kathy has an extraordinary gift for blending scientific rigor with heartfelt wisdom, crafting a resource that is as engaging as it is transformative. Her unique ability to speak to both the mind and the heart ensures that readers feel genuinely seen, heard, and understood.”
– Dustan Drake, Certified Neurolinguistic Programming Practitioner and Trainer
“The Courage to Stay Journal is a powerful and healing guide for anyone seeking to transcend the pain of betrayal. As a clinician who understands the devastation of infidelity, I am moved by the depth of empathy and wisdom woven into every page.”
— Laura Bennett, Ph.D., Clinical Psychologist
- Print length316 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- Publication dateNovember 23, 2024
- Dimensions8 x 0.72 x 10 inches
- ISBN-13979-8986940403
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- ASIN : B0DNWKLZG9
- Publisher : Dr. Kathy & Company Press (November 23, 2024)
- Language : English
- Paperback : 316 pages
- ISBN-13 : 979-8986940403
- Item Weight : 1.73 pounds
- Dimensions : 8 x 0.72 x 10 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #29,211 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #71 in Family Conflict Resolution
- #244 in Love & Romance (Books)
- #268 in Marriage
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About the author

Dr. Kathy Nickerson is a licensed clinical psychologist and nationally recognized relationship expert who has helped thousands of couples. Over the past 22 years, Kathy has presented marriage and relationship advice at more than 70 conferences, while authoring more than 85 professional articles and books. She is a frequent contributor to CNBC, MSN, Reader's Digest, Good Housekeeping, Bustle, Medium, Insider, UpJourney, Fatherly, Zoe Report, Bridal Guide, CNN, PsychCentral, Forbes, Glamour, Cosmopolitan, LA Times, Newsweek and many more.
Dr. Kathy radiates a sincere, familiar warmth that makes everyone she talks to feel comforted. She captivates readers and listeners with her vibrant and humorous style of communication. Kathy’s approachable and transparent style makes her feel like an "open book," and she is beloved by her clients for intuitively understanding their ideas and feelings.
Dr. Kathy earned her Ph.D. and M.S. in psychology at Capella University, following her undergraduate work at UC Irvine in Chemistry. Kathy began her career teaching and counseling at-risk youth with the Orange County Health Care Agency. Kathy then led a distinguished program for the United States Department of Justice, where she and her team trained people how to recognize and respond to domestic violence and child abuse. During these years, Kathy discovered the critical importance of healthy relationships on individuals and families.
Dr. Kathy found that strong marriages contributed greatly to the mental and physical health of her clients. From that point on, Kathy dedicated her career exclusively to helping couples strengthen and repair their relationships.
Dr. Kathy has spent thousands of hours working with and studying couples in all stages of their relationships, from those just starting out to those who have been together for decades. Kathy has been happily married for 24 years and brings her real-life experiences to all aspects of her work.
When she’s away from the office, Dr. Kathy delights in being a wife, sister, auntie and friend. She and her husband enjoy traveling together, digging for fossils, and volunteering with Southern California Bulldog Rescue. Kathy loves to read, work in her garden, experiment in the kitchen, and make handmade gifts for friends. When she wants to relax, Kathy curls up on the couch with her bulldogs and a great glass of wine to watch a true crime show.
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- Reviewed in the United States on January 14, 2025Dr Kathy is amazing. She shows empathy, compassion and understanding in ways I didn't know was possible. She understands that people have invested so much in marriages and shows ways to heal the relationship (if the wayward spouse is willing to do the work) This workbook really makes you think and figure out what you are feeling and how to express it. It is better than any therapy I've had. Dr Kathy truly is a Godsend and this workbook is going to be such a healer and friend to those who are hurting.
- Reviewed in the United States on December 6, 2024If you’re feeling overwhelmed by the pain of betrayal, this journal is exactly what you need. It’s a gentle guide, helping you sort through your thoughts, ease the constant hurt, and finally make sense of everything. The exercises give you real relief, the stories make you feel less alone, and the insights help you see things more clearly. It’s comforting, practical, and so validating. This journal feels like a lifeline—like someone truly understands what you’re going through and wants to help you heal.
- Reviewed in the United States on January 1, 2025Dr. Kathy has compiled a wonderful, detailed workbook to help betrayed partners navigate the difficult healing process. She shares stories and then helps the reader dive into the endless emotions one experiences.
Dr. Kathy ‘s work is incredibly helpful because she has been a couples’ therapist for years and she understands the roller coaster of emotions and trauma that betrayed partners experience.
I would also recommend that readers get the book and watch her on her social media channels.
I highly recommend her work!
- Reviewed in the United States on December 18, 2024As a betrayed spouse who has successfully recovered and rebuilt a marriage blown up by an affair it is crucial to work through the pain and devastation betrayal causes. There are not many resources to help guide you, especially if you want to try and save your marriage! I highly recommend this workbook and the material created by Kathy. It has helped me tremendously. My thoughts and prayers are with you through this difficult time, but take from me post three years from D-Day. There is hope and it is possible to restore your marriage!