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The Way of the Superior Man Audible Audiobook – Unabridged

David Deida (Author), Cecil Archbold (Narrator), Sounds True (Publisher)
4.7 4.7 out of 5 stars 13,214 ratings
#1 Best Seller in Psychology & Counseling Books on Sexuality
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In the decades since the initial publication of The Way of the Superior Man, society has changed significantly. Issues of gender and sexuality long confined to secrecy have become part of everyday conversation, and rigid ideas about our societal roles have begun to dissolve.

And yet, perhaps now more than at any time, men of all ages still “tussle with the challenges of women, work, and sexual desire.” In this unabridged audiobook of the classic guide to masculine spirituality, David Deida encourages men and women to lean into the conversation and offer their most valuable assets to the world—their authentic heart and depth of presence.

More relevant than ever, The Way of the Superior Man offers a view of a more conscious and embodied masculinity. “It is time to evolve beyond the macho jerk ideal, all spine and no heart”, writes Deida. “It is also time to evolve beyond the sensitive and caring wimp ideal, all heart and no spine.”

Including a new preface written in celebration of the book’s 20th anniversary, The Way of the Superior Man presents the next generation of with the opportunity to grapple with fear, cultivate trust in the moment, and put forth the best versions of themselves in an ever-changing world.

Read by Cecil Archbold.

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  1. Listening Length
    5 hours and 22 minutes
  2. Author
    David Deida
  3. Narrator
    Cecil Archbold
  4. Audible release date
    September 4, 2018
  5. Language
    English
  6. Publisher
    Sounds True
  7. ASIN
    B07FXZBYJ9
  8. Version
    Unabridged
  9. Program Type
    Audiobook
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Product details

Listening Length 5 hours and 22 minutes
Author David Deida
Narrator Cecil Archbold
Audible.com Release Date September 04, 2018
Publisher Sounds True
Program Type Audiobook
Version Unabridged
Language English
ASIN B07FXZBYJ9
Best Sellers Rank #264 in Audible Books & Originals (See Top 100 in Audible Books & Originals)
#1 in Psychology & Counseling Books on Sexuality
#2 in Medical Psychology of Sexuality
#2 in Sexual & Reproductive Health

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Jonathan Gardner
5.0 out of 5 stars A good read!
Reviewed in the United States on April 26, 2024
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The book is straight to the point on how to handle situations when it comes to your woman in a positive loving manner. I tried a few of the tips and it worked within seconds & it also explains the polarity of feminine & masculine energies. A very spiritual, and insightful book!
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Mike D
5.0 out of 5 stars A great book
Reviewed in the United States on April 26, 2024
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I learned this book when having discussions on semen retention. I had no idea the book came out at least 20 years ago!

The book talks to men and how to please their partner and the wonders of love. It also says to find your purpose. I wish I got this a long time ago!

The one thing that can be improved is to give examples of men who did what was in the book.

A great book for men to read!
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rgm
5.0 out of 5 stars This book is powerful
Reviewed in the United States on May 1, 2024
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I am mind blown by this book. If I read this book 15 years ago, my marriage would not be coming to an end. This book is just something else. Recommend for all men before marriage. Open minded men only though. Not for big egos.
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Ryan Etchison
5.0 out of 5 stars Great Read
Reviewed in the United States on March 1, 2024
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This was recommended by a friend and I’ve read it three times since purchasing it. Chapters are short, and to the point with tons of great insight. It covers aspects of being man in a very creative and easy to understand way! 10/10
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Pierced
4.0 out of 5 stars If You Do Not Apply It, You Simply Won't Understand It
Reviewed in the United States on November 9, 2011
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I am giving this book 4 stars. For myself, it is a 5 star book, but for men seeking enlightenment on the subject of women and relationships, do not expect to find "answers" here. The answers are in the practice of applying the concepts described in this book, and the book does not describe in detail exactly how to do that, and rightfully so, because such techniques cannot be taught in the pages of a book, they must be experienced first hand.

Deida's work resides entirely within the concepts of polarity and energetics. These are things that are currently unmeasurable by scientific instruments, just as DNA and subatomic particles were not so long ago. If you are looking for clear cut scientific "facts" on the subject of men and women, then look elsewhere because you won't find them here. Deida's work is based on truths that you won't find in science for years to come, but if you do not require "scientific facts", and you are simply wise enough to look and feel inside yourself for what is true and what is not, Deida speaks more truth on the subject of men and women, relationships, polarity and love than any sect of Tantra, Yoga or any individual doctor, sex therapist, or pick up artist out there.

When Deida talks about the feminine and masculine, he is purely talking about energy, NOT the physical body of a man or woman. The masculine energy is defined by traits, the feminine energy is defined by traits, and the polarity between the two creates a balance in which the entire universe sympathetically operates.

If the Big Bang is the purest form of the feminine essence, than gravity, dark matter, dark energy, and black holes would be the purest form of the masculine essence. This relationship, the ying and the yang, the duality of the universe, has been present from the beginning of time, and is found in everything, especially within ourselves and our partners. Deida's work is to define these polarities so a man and a woman can simply recognize them for what they are and work with them as they wish. His work does provide solutions to create a definitive balance between the two, and these solutions are simply tools to keep your relationship absolutely delicious.

Being a man myself, I was initially resentful of the fact that in Deida's eyes, men are required to do all of the "work" in the relationship, while the woman expand into chaos. But when you truly understand the work and the teachings Deida is talking about, it becomes apparent that the woman's role in being absolutely vulnerable, carefree, and not defaulting to their own masculine mind due to a lack of trust in their man is equally as hard, if not harder than what the masculine is required to do.

A woman can easily assume the role of the masculine energy, while the man assumes the feminine. It's actually very common in Western Culture today. As long as the polarity exists, the relationship will always be delicious, despite the ups and downs; it just requires hard work and daily practice from both partners to achieve it.

My girlfriend and I have been practicing Deida's work for a year. It's insane. The ability to literally recreate the feeling of having taken ecstasy simply by engaging your partner is well worth the discipline, or maintain full body orgasms for 30 minutes, 4 times a day isn't bad either.

And what does it all add up to? Well, nothing. It's simply all for the sake of creating art through love while we're here. It's to be of service to others, to give our greatest gift, to experience love on a level very few people in their entire life will ever experience, and to die. There are no secrets to life buried in this book. You practice and serve your relationship, simply to experience love like it has never been experienced before.

This book is not a quick fix. You don't just read it and have all the answers. Honestly, if you read this book and try to apply some of the advice given, you will probably apply it incorrectly and it won't work because you will be missing the energetics involved. There is a teaching that needs to coincide with these words, that unless you seek those teachings and put them into practice, you won't find all that much value here besides an interesting read and possibly a doorway into a new kind of life style.

This path is a hard one, but it is real and it is powerful. Women will find themselves insanely attracted to you and often times, might not entirely know why. It usually starts with men breathing properly, standing properly, and keeping their mouths shut.

If you're willing to learn and actually apply the concepts in this book, and seek out the teachings that go with it, you will find fulfillment in your life and your relationship that transcends everything.

Since getting involved in Deida's work, my girlfriend and I have dedicated every waking moment to it, and we have not looked back since.
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Gabriel cardoso
5.0 out of 5 stars Good
Reviewed in the United States on April 29, 2024
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Nikki Vigne
5.0 out of 5 stars The Way of The Superior Man
Reviewed in the United States on April 16, 2024
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Its a very nice book must have if you’re a collector of knowledge
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Ryan
5.0 out of 5 stars Saved my Relationship
Reviewed in the United States on February 29, 2024
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This book totally transformed my relationship with my girlfriend. It helped me realize that the problem was not “her” but my mindset and attitude towards her. If you are struggling with a relationship this is one of the best gut checks that you can give yourself. Would give it to all of my male friends. It is challenging but empowering and manly in the sense of that it pushes you towards being the best a man can be. Thank you for writing it!
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Sandra Motta
5.0 out of 5 stars Interesante
Reviewed in Mexico on April 28, 2024
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Muy buen libro
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Gabrielcyr41
5.0 out of 5 stars A must read
Reviewed in Canada on January 2, 2024
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This is honestly my top book of all time. So many nuggets. One after another the chapters are short and easy to read but are very thought provoking.
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Cliente Kindle
5.0 out of 5 stars Mandatory read
Reviewed in Brazil on January 13, 2022
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If you are a person with more masculine energy, you need this book. Just take the time to think of how you will apply its lessons in your daily life, though
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Maher
5.0 out of 5 stars A MUST READ
Reviewed in Germany on April 25, 2024
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This should be taught in schools LITERALLY

There are 2 kinds of men.. the one who read this book and the ones who didn't.
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5.0 out of 5 stars A must read !
Reviewed in France on February 2, 2024
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It's one of those books I will read again and again. There is so much golden information about what it is to be man, and a woman ; a lot of those I simply didn't know / was never taught growing up.

I wish I could have found this book when I was younger, it would have saved me a lot of heartache and confusion.
I recommend it to anyone who, like me, is confused about their sense of masculinity and purpose in life.

This book will follow me for the rest of my life. That I know.
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