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How to Do the Work: Recognize Your Patterns, Heal from Your Past, and Create Your Self Hardcover – March 9, 2021

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As a clinical psychologist, Dr. Nicole LePera often found herself frustrated by the limitations of traditional psychotherapy. Wanting more for her patients—and for herself—she began a journey to develop a united philosophy of mental, physical and spiritual wellness that equips people with the interdisciplinary tools necessary to heal themselves. After experiencing the life-changing results herself, she began to share what she’d learned with others—and soon “The Holistic Psychologist” was born.

Now, Dr. LePera is ready to share her much-requested protocol with the world. In How to Do the Work, she offers both a manifesto for SelfHealing as well as an essential guide to creating a more vibrant, authentic, and joyful life. Drawing on the latest research from a diversity of scientific fields and healing modalities, Dr. LePera helps us recognize how adverse experiences and trauma in childhood live with us, resulting in whole body dysfunction—activating harmful stress responses that keep us stuck engaging in patterns of codependency, emotional immaturity, and trauma bonds. Unless addressed, these self-sabotaging behaviors can quickly become cyclical, leaving people feeling unhappy, unfulfilled, and unwell. 

In How to Do the Work, Dr. LePera offers readers the support and tools that will allow them to break free from destructive behaviors to reclaim and recreate their lives. Nothing short of a paradigm shift, this is a celebration of empowerment that will forever change the way we approach mental wellness and self-care.


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“The world needs this book! No matter where you are on your healing journey, How to Do the Work will guide you to stronger relationships, more joy and a clearer path for your future. We can't always control what happens to us, but Nicole gives us a road map on how to respond from a place of healing and inner peace." — Lewis Howes, New York Times bestselling author of The School of Greatness

“In her book, How to Do the Work, Nicole LePera brilliantly demystifies life-changing therapeutic principles in a way that is easy to digest. This book is a must-read for anyone on a path of personal growth.” — Gabby Bernstein, #1 New York Times bestselling author

"How to Do the Work is an invitation to do the work with the inner tools we all carry within ourselves. The invitation is yours if you choose to accept it. Wherever you are on your path, Dr. LePera meets you with open arms; your current level of self-mastery is the only pre-requisite. This is a guide for your journey of becoming. The world needs your gifts, now more than ever."  — Karlyn Percil-Mercieca, CEO of KDPM Consulting Group Inc, Certified Emotional Strategist and Neuro-Life Coach

"On the surface, Dr. LePera's book appears to be a 'how to' manual, but, at its fundament, it's a book about understanding the self. For it is only when we deeply understand that we're able to heal." — The Minimalists

“Want more from life? Looking for answers? How to Do the Work will teach you how to find them within yourself.A masterpiece of empowerment—this book changed my life,and trust me, it’ll change yours too.” — Mel Robbins,author of international bestseller The 5 Second Rule

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Dr. Nicole LePera was trained in clinical psychology at Cornell University and The New School for Social Research and also studied at the Philadelphia School of Psychoanalysis. As a clinical psychologist in private practice, Dr. Nicole found herself frustrated by the limitations of traditional psychotherapy. Wanting more for her patients—and for herself—she began a journey to create a unified philosophy of mental, physical and spiritual health that equips people with the tools to heal themselves. 

Offering a true paradigm shift in mental wellbeing, Dr. Nicole's teachings empower the individual to break free from inherited beliefs and uncover their authentic Selves. She is the New York Times bestselling author of How to Do the Work and is the creator of the #SelfHealers movement, an international community of people joining together to take healing into their own hands. 

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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Harper (March 9, 2021)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Hardcover ‏ : ‎ 320 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 006301209X
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0063012097
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 1.02 pounds
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 6 x 1.05 x 9 inches
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Dr. Nicole LePera was trained in clinical psychology at Cornell University and the New School for Social Research and studied at the Philadelphia School of Psychoanalysis. She is a holistic psychologist whose work addresses the connection between the mind, body and soul incorporating overall lifestyle and psychological wellness practices. She is the creator of the #SelfHealers movement where people from around the world are joining together in community to take healing into their own hands.

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Customers find the book insightful and helpful for working through past issues. They describe it as an enjoyable, useful read with a clear, concise writing style that is easy to understand. The steps are described as actionable and detailed. Readers appreciate the author's authentic perspective and genuine concern for each individual. The journal prompts are also appreciated.

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301 customers mention "Insight"287 positive14 negative

Customers find the book insightful and helpful for working through past issues. They say it makes them think about things and break down feelings and emotions. The techniques in the book can help transform their lives, providing a great introduction to therapy. The book helps them open up and learn more about themselves and families. It offers an important paradigm shift for those with mental health problems and even physical problems.

"...Has scientifically backed date and information as well as ways to use that information to make changes in your life...." Read more

"...I cannot recommend this book enough as it has helped me work through my own past issues." Read more

"...book is amazing at showing the way to find your inner child and control emotions." Read more

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225 customers mention "Readability"207 positive18 negative

Customers find the book easy to read and engaging. They say it's a useful addition to their library and provides good reinforcement for psychology podcasts. The book is effective and a great follow-up to The Body Keeps the Score.

"...I don’t want to be my past trauma. This book is amazing at showing the way to find your inner child and control emotions." Read more

"This book is so good!!!..." Read more

"...Overall, I thought it was an enjoyable read and it gave me plenty to think about." Read more

"...to summarize my concern, I’ll say that all in all, while there is good content, I worry there is potential for trauma bonds to be created or..." Read more

102 customers mention "Writing style"89 positive13 negative

Customers appreciate the book's writing style. They find it concise and easy to understand, with relatable instructions. The author does a great job of introducing the book and teaching the reader through an engaging process.

"This was an easy read, with a ton of great information that I hadn't read in other books of this type...." Read more

"...Just buy a notebook and keep it handy. She writes in a very easy to understand style that's logical and follows a well thought out series of..." Read more

"First, this book was such an easy read. That’s essential and rare when it comes to books like this...." Read more

"...a doctorate in clinical psychology, field experience, and excellent writing skills, the result can be a very powerful thing...." Read more

17 customers mention "Ease of follow"17 positive0 negative

Customers find the book's steps and examples easy to follow. They say it provides a detailed guide through the journey to help understand and implement the work. The book is described as a clear, concise resource and roadmap for those wanting to do the work.

"...very easy to understand style that's logical and follows a well thought out series of progression from chapter to chapter...." Read more

"...This is a guided tour you may journey (or journal) to discover youself and transform yourself to the finest healed version...." Read more

"...and PTSD, I can tell you this book is an incredible resource and road map for those wanting to do the inner work and create a life of meaning and..." Read more

"...Her book is an amazingly, detailed guide through the journey to help understand and the beginning of learning how to love oneself after decades of..." Read more

12 customers mention "Authenticity"12 positive0 negative

Customers appreciate the book's authenticity. They find it realistic and empowering, providing a validating perspective for those feeling like their lives are normal. The book is written honestly and in hope and faith, helping readers feel more authentic. It crystallizes complex lifelong themes of healing and provides valuable insights into personal trauma.

"...book has helped me heal from my own personal trauma and feel more authenticity for myself...." Read more

"This manual for living an authentic, fulfilled, and peaceful life provides invaluable insights and actionable steps for the reader to become aware..." Read more

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"...LePera on instagram and have found her content extremely relatable, validating, and informative...." Read more

10 customers mention "Love"10 positive0 negative

Customers appreciate the author's love and compassion for humanity. They find the book a beautiful reminder of love and connection. Readers feel the author's genuine concern for each individual.

"...love how the book ends with a beautiful reminder that it’s all about love and connection. I’ve recommended it over and over" Read more

"...bonds of trauma, and unending happiness, peace and love for myself and others." Read more

"...Nicole is a generous, loving, nurturing person who feels like a friend I know in real life. Thank you, Nicole! ♥️" Read more

"...May sound generic but this book literally changed my life. Love will always win." Read more

9 customers mention "Journal prompts"9 positive0 negative

Customers find the journal prompts helpful. They say the book provides specific guidance and tools for doing the work. The prompts help them get out of autopilot and become conscious. Readers mention the book helps them recognize their triggers, negative thought patterns, and behaviors.

"...Dr. Nicole helped me recognize my triggers, negative thought patterns/behaviors, and my addictions that included “emotional addiction.”..." Read more

"...of footnotes to prove the science behind her conclusions, and journaling prompts for your "future self" in each chapter...." Read more

"...Actionable and guided prompts. Easy and actually enjoyable to read." Read more

"...she organized the content and gives specific guidance and prompts for doing the work...." Read more

17 customers mention "Pacing"9 positive8 negative

Customers have different views on the pacing of the book. Some find it brilliant and emotional, blending elements with modern terminology and therapy models. Others find the content technical, hard to understand, and boring. The author uses psychological theories to mold her narrative, including studies from Dr. John Bradshaw.

"...This book will undoubtedly be a staple in the way I conceptualize who I am both personally and professionally. Thank you LePera...." Read more

"...To put it bluntly, this is not an easy read. I found the content to be very technical and the terminology to be hard to comprehend...." Read more

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*Warning: This book may lead to SELF-AWARENESS*
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10 stars out of 5 (5 stars won't cut it for me)!!!I just received this book earlier today and was so ecstatic that I read it immediately. Although I am not halfway through this book, what I have read has resonated with me so far. However, it still led me to leave this review because I wanted to share MY experience with Dr. Nicole’s teachings hoping that maybe you, too, will find healing the way I did.---Dr. Nicole has helped me open my eyes and see that I wasn’t this big ego, insecure, clingy, anxious kind of person. No, I was more than just that. I was, in fact, someone who had unresolved trauma. No surprise to me because I was assaulted as a child and had lived through that my whole life. I went to therapy too, but I just stopped because I did not resonate with them. However, here is what I learned about myself, well, about who I was.I learned that I come from codependency, anxiety, PPD, childhood trauma, and generational trauma. While I was well aware of anxiety, PPD, and childhood trauma, I was never aware that I, too, was codependent and experienced generational trauma. I was someone subconsciously crying for help; my inner child needed the nurturing it never got. I also learned that I subconsciously mirrored my own mother’s struggle, dating men after men; this makes sense because I was codependent. A big part of this was because my brain was so used to making this chemical “cocktail” (Dr. Nicole quotes), I was subconsciously unaware I was making such irrational reactions/behaviors. (This is where Dr. Nicole’s book comes in handy; to re-parent ourselves by unlearning negative habits/behaviors and replacing them with positive ones.)Dr. Nicole helped me recognize my triggers, negative thought patterns/behaviors, and my addictions that included “emotional addiction.” Moreover, her teachings enabled me to validate my emotions/feelings, set boundaries for myself and others, honoring myself, being more present for my children, etc. (I would continue, but the list would be too long). It also led me to take care of myself by journaling, caring for the gut-brain axis, practicing mindfulness meditation, and exercising.I’m not saying that her teachings “healed” all of me because frankly, I think I’ll be working on myself until I die. She just helped me to recognize what has always been in there, hiding. For me, that’s okay because the one thing I gained from her teachings is the one thing we lack in this world – self-awareness.-*If you are still unsure about purchasing this book, do these things first. You can look at her videos via YouTube (I learned that I was not “in love” but rather “in trauma”) or her IG page. See if any of her teachings resonate with you, and if they do, then I am certain you, too, would benefit from this book. But if not, well, then I wish you the best in your healing journey. As much as I want her teachings to heal everyone, I am also aware that her teachings may not align or resonate with others, and that is okay too.*Just a reminder, if you do get this book, or if you’re in the journey of healing, remind yourself that not only does this journey require commitment, it also requires RE-COMMITMENT. There will be times where you will feel defeated, and that’s okay; what matters is getting back up and continuing. You got this! “I see you. I am with you!”
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  • Reviewed in the United States on December 24, 2024
    This was an easy read, with a ton of great information that I hadn't read in other books of this type. Has scientifically backed date and information as well as ways to use that information to make changes in your life. One of my favorite books this far! I can't recommend this book enough! You will not be disappointed!!
  • Reviewed in the United States on November 2, 2024
    I found this author on YouTube and had to buy her first book. It comes with a corresponding workbook, but you don't need it. Just buy a notebook and keep it handy. She writes in a very easy to understand style that's logical and follows a well thought out series of progression from chapter to chapter. It's not the kind of book you "read through." Instead, if you need healing from past trauma and repeating negative thoughts and emotions, this book includes the steps you need to apply to start the healing. I cannot recommend this book enough as it has helped me work through my own past issues.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on January 2, 2025
    I am at a point in life I want to find myself. I don’t want to be my past trauma. This book is amazing at showing the way to find your inner child and control emotions.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on November 11, 2024
    It is a age turner and learned so much from reading this book about myself. It provided great tools to heal.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on October 19, 2024
    This book is so good!!! There were a lot of things I was on the cusp of understanding until I read it and I was able to connect a lot of the dots.

    I can’t recommend this enough for someone who is looking for steps to take to self healing.

    - from a parentified eldest daughter
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  • Reviewed in the United States on June 5, 2021
    I started reading my copy from it’s release date and purposely took my time finishing it. Three months later, after putting lessons in practice, doing journal prompts, and assessing myself afterwards, I can honestly say this book has helped me heal from my own personal trauma and feel more authenticity for myself.

    However, this book is not for everyone, and the author makes you well aware of that fact early on. To put it bluntly, this is not an easy read. I found the content to be very technical and the terminology to be hard to comprehend. (This will definitely act as a reference book as I learn more moving forward.) Additionally, the stories and questions in here will prompt you to think of things you’ve set aside in your subconscious because they were too uncomfortable or painful to remember, and it asks you to take responsibility in your own healing. The title says it all and if you’re not prepared to “do the work,” this isn’t your book. It’s a commitment to yourself and, because the work is never done, it’s a continuous practice you learn to do.

    My only gripe with this book was the very brief mentions of BIPOC and how this particular paradigm shift in mental health could affect this community. Don’t get me wrong, she touches on this topic a few times within the book, but it would be interesting to learn more — perhaps from a more qualified (BIPOC) perspective within the field.

    Overall, I thought it was an enjoyable read and it gave me plenty to think about.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on November 17, 2024
    Dr. LePera’s book has helped me tremendously. She opens your eyes to self-defeating behaviors by sharing her own personal transformational story. She gives you all the tips you meed to do the work. This is by far the best self-help book I have ever read.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on September 11, 2024
    First, this book was such an easy read. That’s essential and rare when it comes to books like this.

    It really helped me sit and think about how my upbringing has influenced my relationships (and lack of). I’m excited to take the tools and work on myself!
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  • Sarah
    5.0 out of 5 stars Phenomenal book
    Reviewed in Canada on November 25, 2024
    I really loved this book and it helped work through some things that I just didn’t think of. Dr Nicole LePera really knows her stuff.
  • Abigail Jordani
    5.0 out of 5 stars Capa dura, entrega rápida
    Reviewed in Brazil on March 11, 2023
    Ótimo livro.
  • Nicole
    5.0 out of 5 stars Todos y todas deben leer este libro
    Reviewed in Mexico on January 14, 2023
    Poderosísimo mensaje. Me está ayudando mucho a entender, sanar y transformarme. Todo el mundo debería leerlo.
  • Amrita
    5.0 out of 5 stars Amazing book that changed my perspective on life!
    Reviewed in India on January 2, 2025
    Absolutely loved this book! It gave me a whole new picture of how different our life can be if we change our perspective! It helped me heal some of my biggest traumas as well!
  • JOSE BALAGUER ALEDON
    5.0 out of 5 stars muy buena lectura
    Reviewed in Spain on December 11, 2024
    Realmente es un libro muy interesante y muy profesional que da consejos muy válidos. Además la autora menciona pocos libros, pero realmente son libros en mi opinión de lo mejor que hay en la materia.