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Blueprints for Divorce: An Act of Love, Sacrifice, and Redemption Kindle Edition

by Rachael Needham (Author) Format: Kindle Edition
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An interactive guide to help you decide if divorce is a healthy choice for you.

It's okay to get unmarried, though it's not the happy ending we all dream of. Blueprints for Divorce will guide you on a journey of figuring out if divorce is a healthy choice for you. This book will help you recognize unhealthy relationship behaviors, understand divorce in light of Christianity and the Bible, and build yourself up while walking through something challenging and heart wrenching. Reframe how you see divorce, looking through a lens of love, sacrifice, and redemption. Words we don’t typically associate with divorce, yet words which give light and life—the very light and life divorce may bring you.

Rachael fought for her marriage right up to the day she filed for divorce. She faced the challenges of considering divorce, especially how it fit with her beliefs, along with the heartbreak that came with it.
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  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B0CTWX91HH
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ ERA Wordsmiths (February 29, 2024)
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ February 29, 2024
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • File size ‏ : ‎ 19069 KB
  • Text-to-Speech ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Screen Reader ‏ : ‎ Supported
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  • Word Wise ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Sticky notes ‏ : ‎ On Kindle Scribe
  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 214 pages
  • Page numbers source ISBN ‏ : ‎ B0CTYB9H4L
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Rachael Needham

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Rachael is a mindset and relationship coach, business owner, single parent, friend, and lover of life and God. Having lived in France to get her master's degree, Rachael now speaks French with her girl-boy twins. The three of them love both exploring the world and living on their Midwest farm with their Goldendoodle, orange cat, and robo-vacuum.

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This book brings together all the elements of being a Christian and wondering if divorce is for you.I’ll be completely honest here: I am NOT suffering in my marriage, but this book was an eye opener in understanding my divorced parents relationships, what friends or other family might be going through and overall a beautifully written resource for those lost in their marriage.This book is like talking to a trusted friend. It brings true care and thoughtful questions to ask yourself. It brings light to all the looming thoughts one could have during a difficult season in life.This book is also a good guide of seeing even the smallest concerns raised in your marriage and gives you some navigation on how to start working on them.This book is worth the time because you are worth the time.
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Erin Christopher
5.0 out of 5 stars Impactful!
Reviewed in the United States on March 8, 2024
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This book brings together all the elements of being a Christian and wondering if divorce is for you.
I’ll be completely honest here: I am NOT suffering in my marriage, but this book was an eye opener in understanding my divorced parents relationships, what friends or other family might be going through and overall a beautifully written resource for those lost in their marriage.
This book is like talking to a trusted friend. It brings true care and thoughtful questions to ask yourself. It brings light to all the looming thoughts one could have during a difficult season in life.
This book is also a good guide of seeing even the smallest concerns raised in your marriage and gives you some navigation on how to start working on them.
This book is worth the time because you are worth the time.
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Erin Christopher
5.0 out of 5 stars Impactful!
Reviewed in the United States on March 8, 2024
This book brings together all the elements of being a Christian and wondering if divorce is for you.
I’ll be completely honest here: I am NOT suffering in my marriage, but this book was an eye opener in understanding my divorced parents relationships, what friends or other family might be going through and overall a beautifully written resource for those lost in their marriage.
This book is like talking to a trusted friend. It brings true care and thoughtful questions to ask yourself. It brings light to all the looming thoughts one could have during a difficult season in life.
This book is also a good guide of seeing even the smallest concerns raised in your marriage and gives you some navigation on how to start working on them.
This book is worth the time because you are worth the time.
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Rebekah N-S
5.0 out of 5 stars Informative & insightful resource for making a challenging decision
Reviewed in the United States on February 29, 2024
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This book is an amazing resource for those seeking to identify whether or not divorce is a healthy option for them. Written through a lens of Christianity, the author explores the various reasons why sometimes divorce is the choice that leads to mental, physical, and spiritual well-being.

Divorce is a topic rife with conflicting opinions - opinions that often trap people in toxic relationships rather than help them identify what is healthy, what is safe, and where God's heart is for them. This book is written for the person seeking to know and understand themselves well enough to make their own, informed decision while still honouring their beliefs.

I haven't personally walked through the heartache and challenge of divorce but many of my friends and family have. This book is a resource they all wanted and needed. Blueprints for Divorce is one of the first tools I recommend to those evaluating whether or not divorce is a healthy choice for them.
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Pam C.
5.0 out of 5 stars This is not like any other book I have seen regarding divorce!
Reviewed in the United States on February 29, 2024
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I have not gotten a divorce myself, but I have seen many in my world. I have walked through the hardest valleys with friends and family and have been in close and personal places with people I care deeply for not always able to answer questions clearly. I have been in leadership at churches that stuck to only one reason for divorce. This led me to search deeply about both the reasons and effects of divorce and the grief it brings. Through the years, I have read things I disagree with and others that helped with the aftermath. This book addresses making an informed decision about your belief system regarding divorce.

Rachael does a beautiful job of leading the reader to encourage others to see what is healthiest for them. She addresses the issues you may encounter and steps forward. The other draws from her experience and her journey to understand it biblically. I promise you that you will be challenged. However, she is both authentic and gracious as she shares. She allows the reader to draw their own conclusion while stating what she learned in her process.

The Blueprints for Divorce is something I will be purchasing for others when I hear them wondering and questioning if they are ready to take the next steps. Reading Rachael's story will help them to see clearer and realized that Divorce can be an act of love, a sacrifice, and will bring redemption. I believe we all need to have a better understanding of our own belief system instead of just saying what others tell us. This makes this book a must have. Don't hesitate. Grab your own copy and look for yourself!
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5.0 out of 5 stars Most comprehensive coverage of divorce I have ever seen!
Reviewed in the United States on March 4, 2024
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This is a solid resource for understanding the multiple aspects of what leads to divorce and what the Bible says about divorce and what to do with it. As a child of divorced parents this book helped me better understand why they made the choices they did. I recognize the things my marriage could work on and how to proceed in peace. I highly recommend this book if your have questions on what the Bible says about divorce and a wonderful reminder of God’s grace and love for you right where you are.
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Khristen Price
5.0 out of 5 stars The friend you’ve been searching for.
Reviewed in the United States on March 4, 2024
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Rachael’s book, “Blueprints for Divorce” is literally the friend you’ve been looking for to walk you through this journey. I recently signed divorce papers and I can not tell you the money I spent trying to figure out the information, counsel, and support she has provided in this book!
Rachael is transparent, raw, yet uses humor to lighten the read. It’s a beautiful tone of God’s voice as a truly loving Father that wants the best for His children.
Thank you Rachael for your courage and obedience!
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Esme
5.0 out of 5 stars Divorce is hard But God can redeem it all
Reviewed in the United States on March 6, 2024
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As a person who experienced divorce and had to fight so many internal battles, I wondered if I was doing the "right thing," and that isn't something people want to talk about. I appreciate Rachael's honesty and heartfelt personal stories. However, what I love the most is the redemption story and her love for God, which led her to write this book and share her heart and wisdom with others.
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Bob Parr
5.0 out of 5 stars Raw, Honest, Inspiring, and Hope for Your Future!
Reviewed in the United States on March 6, 2024
Rachael's book "Blueprints for Divorce" challenges our traditional way of thinking about divorce by helping us see that it can be a courageous choice and a determined decision that prioritizes your well-being above all else rather than something that brings shame and failure.

Blueprints for Divorce is unlike a typical book focusing solely on saving marriages at all costs. Instead, Rachael helps you to dive deep into navigating abusive relationships as she weaves her story beautifully throughout the pages, being raw, honest, inspiring, and giving hope for your future.

Rachael is about reframing the conversation from right or wrong to healthy or unhealthy. Plus, she doesn't shy away from the tough stuff, like recognizing and dealing with abuse in relationships.

Overall, her book provides readers with the tools to make informed decisions about their marriages, whether that means staying together or pursuing divorce.

Well done, Rachael Needham!
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Sara
5.0 out of 5 stars Game-changer!
Reviewed in the United States on February 29, 2024
I wish I could have read this book 20yrs ago!
This is not just another relationship book, it’s a therapy session small enough to fit in your purse, & affordable enough to buy for your friends <3
I read a crap ton of marriage self-help books during my save-the-marriage-years, and NONE of them REALLY covered what Rachael talks about, not like this.
This book is gold, refined in the fire.
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