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UPLVL Communication: The Ultimate Solution to Save Relationships and Eliminate Hurtful, Damaging, & Meaningless Arguments Paperback – August 5, 2019
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- Print length224 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- Publication dateAugust 5, 2019
- Dimensions5.5 x 0.51 x 8.5 inches
- ISBN-101733164804
- ISBN-13978-1733164801
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- Publisher : SelfAsSource (August 5, 2019)
- Language : English
- Paperback : 224 pages
- ISBN-10 : 1733164804
- ISBN-13 : 978-1733164801
- Item Weight : 9.3 ounces
- Dimensions : 5.5 x 0.51 x 8.5 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #1,092,511 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #1,728 in Conflict Management
- #1,835 in Family Conflict Resolution
- #5,002 in Love & Romance (Books)
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About the author

ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Carl E. Stevens, Jr. (aka Rakhem Seku) is a metaphysician, life and love coach, and author. He teaches the Bagua Astrology System (BAS) and applies metaphysical concepts to support people in creating the lives they desire through the JujuMama Love Academy (JLA) – a metaphysical school he created with his wife Kenya Stevens.
Carl is the author of numerous books, including:
•The Art of Open Relating Volume 1: Theory, Philosophy, & Foundation
•Tame Your Woman: Become the Man She Needs
•Finding Male Sexuality: My Personal Journey in Awakening the Masculine Sexual Self
•Manifesting Marriage for Women: 9 Steps to Finding Your Partner and Creating a Successful Marriage •I Create My Life: Manifesting Your Desires Using the Sun Cycle
•Bagua Astrology Oracle Interpretation Guide
•Bagua Astrology Character Mapping Interpretation Guide
•Bagua Character Map: Science, Analysis, & Interpretation
•Moon Manifestation System Workbook & Journal
•Bagua Astrology for Beginner
Media Appearances
Carl’s media appearances includes:
•The Monique ShowTM
•The Ricki Lake ShowTM
•The Dr. Phil ShowTM
•The Brian Cunningham ShowTM
•Fox NewsTM, ABC NewsTM
•The Michael BaisdenTM radio show,
•WRFG Atlanta
•WUSL Power 99FMTM in Philadelphia and many others.
Education & Family
Carl has a Bachelors of Science degree in Engineering from North Carolina State University and an MBA from Howard University.
Carl is married to his wife Kenya K. Stevens for 20+ years and has three children.
He resides in Asheville, NC where he runs the JujuMama Love Academy in their downtown office with his wife Kenya.
The Art of Open Relating Volume 1
The Art of Open Relating Volume 1:
Theory, Philosophy, & Foundation explores the many dynamics of open relationships and what anyone should consider before considering this relationship style. What’s also defined is the difference between open relationships, monogamy, polyamory, and polygamy. It’s of critical importance we understand the various relationship dynamics and their accurate definitions so we can make the best choices for our own personal relationships.
Learn about the many open relationship structures and how they change and what we should be mindful of inside of each of these structures. This is critically important due to the fluid nature of open relationships.
In addition, the individual profiles of people who participate in open relationships are also defined to support each participant in understanding some of the risk factors each person brings to the open relationship structures they’re participating in. How does a married couple fair versus someone who isn’t married? Why are guiding principles the backbone of open relating rather than rules and protocols that we find in polyamory? Why isn’t open relating for most people, but only a small minority of the population?
This book also offers some insight into the challenges with monogamy and even some strategies for monogamous couples to strengthen their bonds. Monogamy has some very specific characteristics that must be recognized and accounted for in order to avoid the traps leading to infidelity and divorce.
Learn the three phases of opening your relationship and why each phase is critical for success. Generally, the people who fail in opening their relationship have skipped one or more of these steps and instead jumped right in.
Overall, The Art of Open Relating Volume 1: Theory, Philosophy, & Foundation is an critical read in helping define the relationship landscape whether you’re into open relationships or not. It’s job at identifying the possibilities for how to live your relationship life is of major value and good to know if nothing else
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Customers find the book provides a practical and step-by-step approach to relationship communication. They say it improves their relationships with lovers, family, and friends. The book changes their perspective on relationships and helps them make better choices. Readers enjoy reading it and recommend it highly.
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Customers find the book provides a practical and step-by-step approach to relationship communication. They say it improves their relationships with lovers, family, and friends. The book changes their perspective on relationships and helps them make better choices. It is described as empowering and helpful.
"This book helped to save my relationship. We now use the techniques in this book and we even attend her workshops!!..." Read more
"...Using this system is improving all of my relationships with lovers, family & friends." Read more
"A peaceful, empowering answer, to a world full of pain, and chaos. A MUST READ!!!! *..." Read more
"...This book is helping me make better choices in knowing when are the appropriate times to converse...." Read more
Customers enjoy reading the book. They find it helpful for communicating effectively.
"...Well I'm happy to say that I really like the book and enjoyed reading it. I'm so glad I purchased it...." Read more
"This book was EXCELLENT! The tools given to utilize this system really work when practiced consistently within any and all relationships...." Read more
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Communicating With Ease. Highly Recommended.
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- Reviewed in the United States on April 29, 2022This book helped to save my relationship. We now use the techniques in this book and we even attend her workshops!! The techniques are proven to work and sooo easy to use. Kenya has a wonderful, vibrant personality and I enjoy all of her teachings!! I’ve also taken another one of her courses, which had just as much powerful content and exercises. Thank you so much for all of the love and positivity you pour into your works! My partner and I are incredibly thankful!
- Reviewed in the United States on December 11, 2020I've heard so much about this book from my daughter and how the author offers so many examples that may resonate with me. Well I'm happy to say that I really like the book and enjoyed reading it. I'm so glad I purchased it. I will try to practice what the author suggest so that I too can receive the benefits that awaits me. Thank you Amazon for making my purchase easy and quick. I received it very quickly.
- Reviewed in the United States on March 9, 2020This book was EXCELLENT! The tools given to utilize this system really work when practiced consistently within any and all relationships.
Using this system is improving all of my relationships with lovers, family & friends.
- Reviewed in the United States on December 8, 2023A peaceful, empowering answer, to a world full of pain, and chaos. A MUST READ!!!!
*Required school reading, for middle school and high school graduation.
- Reviewed in the United States on September 13, 2019As a Woman in My Fifties, I’ve struggled throughout My Life with Communication....Especially when engaging in Passionate Topics. I now have a perfect tool as this book offers me tools to sharpen up my articulation in any emotional or challenging situation.
Although it’s Titled UPLV Communication, I consider it My Communication Bible.
This book is helping me make better choices in knowing when are the appropriate times to converse.
It’s also helping me realize all conversations are not meant to be had or they don’t have to end destructively. 🙏🏽🤗
I was at a level 10 in terms of impulsiveness to share when the containers didn’t present themselves.
Presently, I’m doing my best to articulate precisely what it is I am trying to convey.
Moving forward, I no longer force or need to control another person who choices not to engage. 🙏🏽❤️
Thank you for this work.
5.0 out of 5 starsAs a Woman in My Fifties, I’ve struggled throughout My Life with Communication....Especially when engaging in Passionate Topics. I now have a perfect tool as this book offers me tools to sharpen up my articulation in any emotional or challenging situation.Communicating With Ease. Highly Recommended.
Reviewed in the United States on September 13, 2019
Although it’s Titled UPLV Communication, I consider it My Communication Bible.
This book is helping me make better choices in knowing when are the appropriate times to converse.
It’s also helping me realize all conversations are not meant to be had or they don’t have to end destructively. 🙏🏽🤗
I was at a level 10 in terms of impulsiveness to share when the containers didn’t present themselves.
Presently, I’m doing my best to articulate precisely what it is I am trying to convey.
Moving forward, I no longer force or need to control another person who choices not to engage. 🙏🏽❤️
Thank you for this work.
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- Reviewed in the United States on September 23, 2020This book provides a practical and step by step approach to relationship communication. I love how the author provided scenarios that those skills can be implemented in. I will recommend this book to everyone I know.
- Reviewed in the United States on December 2, 2021UPLVL Communication changed my perspective on my relationships with others. It helped me see a broken down system on how to communicate with people and actually get to the root of why I may be reacting when I could express myself in a healthier way. This book was recommended to me from my therapist and I would highly encourage you to read it.
- Reviewed in the United States on January 21, 2021I am really enjoying reading this book. It makes you look at life experiences in a different perspective. I am learning to re-wire how I have viewed my past and current experiences.