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His Needs, Her Needs: Making Romantic Love Last (How to Identify and Satisfy 10 Vital Needs in Your Marriage. A Practical Relationship Guide for Couples) Hardcover – February 8, 2022

by Willard F. Harley Jr. (Author)
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Make your marriage sizzle!

Time after time, His Needs, Her Needs has topped the charts as the best marriage book available. More than any other, this book helps husbands and wives give each other what they need most in marriage.

This revised and updated edition of the classic bestseller will help you

● understand the ten most vital needs of men and women
● learn how to identify and satisfy those needs in your spouse
● become irresistible to your spouse
● love more creatively and sensitively

Millions of couples have learned to keep the romance alive by reading His Needs, Her Needs. Join those who have seen spectacular changes in their marriage by following Dr. Harley's tried and proven counsel, with emphasis on building romantic love and extraordinary care for each other.

You will discover that an outstanding marriage can be more than a dream--it can be your reality.
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Classic Resources for Making Romantic Love Last

Time after time, His Needs, Her Needs has topped the charts as the best marriage book available.

In this revised and updated edition of the classic bestseller, Willard F. Harley, Jr., identifies the ten most vital needs of men and women and shows spouses how to identify and satisfy those needs in each other.

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  • Helpful definitions and explanations
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  • Questions for her, questions for him, and questions to consider together
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Become irresistible to your spouse

Love more creatively and sensitively

Build romantic love and extraordinary care for each other

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"My new husband and I were having trouble adjusting to marriage. I read this book and immediately things began to improve."

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"I have recommended this book to every one of my friends. It should become a staple in every house."

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Make your marriage sizzle!

Time after time, His Needs, Her Needs has topped the charts as the best marriage book available. More than any other, this book helps husbands and wives give each other what they need most in marriage.

In this revised and updated edition of the classic bestseller, Willard F. Harley, Jr., identifies the ten most vital needs of men and women and shows spouses how to identify and satisfy those needs in each other. He provides guidance for becoming irresistible to your spouse and for loving more creatively and sensitively.

Millions of couples have learned to keep the romance alive by reading His Needs, Her Needs. Join those who have seen spectacular changes in their marriage by following Dr. Harley's tried and proven counsel, with emphasis on building romantic love and extraordinary care for each other. You will discover that an outstanding marriage can be more than a dream--it can be your reality.

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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Revell; Revised and Updated edition (February 8, 2022)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Hardcover ‏ : ‎ 240 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 0800740998
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0800740993
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 1.17 pounds
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 6.1 x 1 x 9.1 inches
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Dr. Willard F. Harley, Jr. is a nationally acclaimed clinical psychologist, a marriage counselor, and the bestselling author of numerous books, including His Needs, Her Needs; Five Steps to Romantic Love; Surviving an Affair; Draw Close; and He Wins, She Wins. Harley's much-loved book, His Needs, Her Needs, is also available with a video curriculum for churches and small groups. His popular website, www.marriagebuilders.com, offers practical solutions to almost any marital problem.

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Customers find the book helpful for couples seeking lasting love and deeper connection. They find the information enlightening and useful for naming needs and productive talking points. The writing style is clear, straightforward, and easy to understand. Readers appreciate the practical advice with actionable steps.

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Customers find the book helpful for married couples looking to improve their marriage. They say it's a must-read guide for couples seeking lasting love and deeper connection. The book provides practical relationship advice with a straightforward approach to marital issues. Many readers mention it makes a great wedding gift for friends and is essential reading for any marriage.

"Made a great wedding gift for a friend! Of all the marriage books I have read, this is the most practical and easy to read" Read more

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"...for fun/hobbies, but after 10 years I can say this was a powerful tool for our marriage. I recommend this book to any committed partners." Read more

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Customers find the book provides good information and helps them identify their needs. They appreciate the examples throughout the book that provide clarity and understanding. The book is described as practical and an excellent resource.

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  • Kiril
    5.0 out of 5 stars A Must-Read Guide for Couples Seeking Lasting Love and Deeper Connection
    Reviewed in the United States on December 17, 2024
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    This book was such an insightful read for both me and my partner. His Needs, Her Needs dives deep into understanding what makes relationships thrive by addressing the fundamental needs of both individuals. It breaks down practical steps that are easy to follow and apply in real life.

    The author explains key concepts like communication, emotional intimacy, and understanding your partner’s unique needs in a way that feels relatable and actionable. I especially loved how the examples throughout the book provided clarity and helped us identify areas where we could improve as a couple.

    One of the best parts is that we shared this book with some of our friends, and they loved it too! It’s the kind of book that sparks meaningful conversations and brings people closer together.

    Pros:

    Practical advice with actionable steps
    Clear writing style that’s easy to understand
    Examples and real-world applications
    Cons:

    Some parts might feel repetitive, but they reinforce key points well.
    Overall, I highly recommend His Needs, Her Needs to any couple looking to strengthen their relationship. It’s not just a book—it’s a guide to building lasting love.
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  • Niekie G
    5.0 out of 5 stars Def a keeper.. cnt wait to finish reading
    Reviewed in the United States on January 20, 2025
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    It's a very gud and informative book
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  • Jessica Martin
    5.0 out of 5 stars Great Wedding Gift!!
    Reviewed in the United States on January 28, 2025
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    Made a great wedding gift for a friend! Of all the marriage books I have read, this is the most practical and easy to read
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    5.0 out of 5 stars We’re still married.
    Reviewed in the United States on March 4, 2025
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    Some of the content is a little dated as far as what people do for fun/hobbies, but after 10 years I can say this was a powerful tool for our marriage. I recommend this book to any committed partners.
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  • Carl Hunt
    4.0 out of 5 stars Easy read
    Reviewed in the United States on March 1, 2025
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    Read this every evening with my wife. We enjoyed the book. Good information. Not all topics or situations didn’t apply to us but informative
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  • Matt R.
    5.0 out of 5 stars Great book
    Reviewed in the United States on December 28, 2024
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    This book and now the marriage coaching from steve Harley has been the only way I am currently still married. The principles are simple but thorough, more so than the love languages and other books. Would highly recommend and would say any couple should read this book as it will improve their relationship.
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  • Lewis SA
    5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent marriage book
    Reviewed in the United States on February 19, 2025
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    I found this book to be great in helping us as a couple grow our romantic love for each other. The video on the Marriage Builders site are also good. Essential reading for any marriage.
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  • Jennifer
    5.0 out of 5 stars Very helpful
    Reviewed in the United States on December 3, 2024
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    I love that this book is giving me clarity and understanding. It is giving me more of an in depth look into my husband, his needs and how I can meet them better as his partner.
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  • Ashish
    5.0 out of 5 stars Five Stars
    Reviewed in India on May 26, 2016
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    Wonderful book. Dust read for all couples
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  • Sandeep
    4.0 out of 5 stars Good WITFM
    Reviewed in India on April 4, 2014
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    First of all, you should know why you are buying it - It is a good read for anyone who wants to take some tips and implement them to improve matrimony relationship. You can understand the different needs and misunderstandings. Though the entire text might not be useful or related, as it is based on the cultural domain of the author, and might not match the exact situations / it has some universal ideas which can lead to a better relationship.

    Overall it is worth reading!
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