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Love & Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs Hardcover – Big Book, September 5, 2004
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Come discover one of the greatest secrets to a successful relationship! Love & Respect is A New York Times?best-selling marriage book making a difference with over two million copies sold! Help you and your spouse achieve a deeper level of intimacy by stopping the crazy cycle of conflict, developing better communication skills, and enjoying renewed passion.
Cracking the communication code between husband and wife involves understanding one thing: that unconditional respect is as powerful for him as unconditional love is for her. It's the secret to marriage that every couple seeks, and yet few couples ever find. While both men and women deserve both love and respect, in the midst of conflict the driving need for a woman is love and the driving need for a man is respect. When either of these needs isn’t met, things get crazy.
Based on over three decades of counseling, as well as scientific and biblical research, Love and Respect is for anyone: those in marital crisis, the happily married, engaged couples, pastors and counselors, and small groups. This dynamic and life-changing message is impacting the world, resulting in the healing and restoration of countless relationships.
In Love & Respect couples can find:
- How to break down the communication code between spouses
- How to handle conflict in a relationship
- How to build respect for one another
- How to foster a deep love for one another
- How to rekindle passion for one another
Taking God’s biblical practice of marriage and applying it with practical techniques, Emerson Eggerichs shows how mutual Love and Respect can balance a marriage and encourage a successful relationship.
Pair Love & Respect?with the Love & Respect Workbook for Couples, Individuals, and Groups for an added experience and to dig deeper into your relationship and foster understanding with your partner. Love & Respect?is also available in Spanish, Amor y Respeto.
- Print length324 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherThomas Nelson
- Publication dateSeptember 5, 2004
- Dimensions6.5 x 1 x 9.75 inches
- ISBN-101591451876
- ISBN-13978-1591451877
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Shaunti Feldhahn - social researcher and best-selling author of For Women Only and For Men Only“Millions of lives and marriages – and in many ways, our whole culture – are completely different today because of the work of Emerson Eggerichs and Love and Respect ministries...Emerson and I both felt, when our books were published in 2004 (three weeks apart!) that God wanted to change the paradigm in our culture for how everyone viewed the needs of men and women, and especially to understand that men’s primary need is respect. Ten years later, that paradigm has truly been changed, largely through Emerson’s pioneering work and leadership. It is awe-inspiring to look back and watch how God’s hand has moved through the Love and Respect ministry every step of the way.” |
Michael Hyatt - Former Chairman and CEO of Thomas Nelson Publishers.“Although we have read numerous books on marriage and attended many seminars, this one was truly unique. In fact, it is probably the most helpful one we have ever experienced. Gail and I were so impressed with the seminar and the book that we are considering starting a couple’s class this fall in our home. We have ordered the DVDs, because we want people to get the content directly from Emerson. He is a great communicator.” |
Meg Meeker, M.D., physician and best-selling author of Strong Mothers, Strong Sons."As a pediatrician of 30 years, I can say without question, the single most important gift any parent can give his child is a healthy marriage. Love and Respect gives every married or engaged person the tools necessary to build a strong marriage., There is no other program or book that offers such clear, sage and workable advice anywhere in the marriage aisles of bookstores. I can tell you that the lessons I learned in the book, helped my marriage." |
Dave Ramsey - NY Times best-selling author and radio host. America's trusted voice on money and business."Occasionally I run into somebody whose material, what they’re teaching, and the quality of the person rocks my world. Dr. Emerson Eggerichs spoke at our offices the other day and had our team laughing and crying and punching each other, in a loving way of course. When my oldest daughter got married, this was one of her favorite books." |
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Brief Description | The original book, designed to help couples love each other more efficiently. | The workbook accompaniment to the original book. | Using the principles of Love & Respect, this book focuses on communication. | The workbook accompaniment to the book on communication. | 52 devotionals based on the material of Love & Respect | A beautiful gift book edition that distills down the most important tips from Love & Respect |
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Brief Description | Based on the principles of Love & Respect, a guide for parents to receive respect and children to receive love. | Based on the principles of Love & Respect, a guide for mothers to learn to both love and respect their sons. | Based on the principles of Love & Respect, a guide to better and healthier digital communication. | The Love & Respect conference DVDs The DVDs are divided into 10 sessions with introductions to each conference session from Dr. Emerson Eggerichs. It is perfect for individuals, couples and small groups. | The pack includes: the DVD's containing all 6 sessions, 2 Study Guides and 1 of our keepsake Building Blocks |
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Psychological studies affirm it, and the Bible has been saying it for ages. Cracking the communication code between husband and wife involves understanding one thing: that unconditional respect is as powerful for him as unconditional love is for her. It's the secret to marriage that every couple seeks, and yet few couples ever find.
Today, you and your mate can start fresh with the ground-breaking guidance that Dr. Emerson Eggerichs provides in this book. His revolutionary message, featured on Focus on the Family, is for anyone: in marital crisis...wanting to stay happily married...who's feeling lonely. It's for engaged couples...victims of affairs...pastors and counselors seeking material that can save a marriage.
Using Dr. Eggerich's breakthrough techniques, couples nationwide are achieving a brand-new level of intimacy and learning how to: - stop the Crazy Cycle of conflict - initiate the Energizing Cycle of change - enjoy the Rewarded Cycle of new passion
And if you'll take this biblically based counsel to heart, your marriage could be next!
About the Author
Emerson Eggerichs, PhD, is an internationally known communication expert and author of the New York Times bestseller Love & Respect. Just as Dr. Eggerichs transformed millions of marital relationships with a biblical understanding of love and respect, he also turned these principles to one of the most important relationships of all in Mother & Son: The Respect Effect. As a communication expert, Emerson has also spoken to groups such as the NFL, NBA, PGA, US Navy SEALs and members of Congress. He was the senior pastor of Trinity Church in East Lansing, Michigan for almost twenty years. Emerson holds a PhD in child and family ecology from Michigan State University, a BA in Biblical Studies from Wheaton College, an MA in communications from Wheaton College Graduate School, and an MDiv from the University of Dubuque Theological Seminary. He and his wife Sarah have been married since 1973 and have three adult children.
Product details
- Publisher : Thomas Nelson; 1st edition (September 5, 2004)
- Language : English
- Hardcover : 324 pages
- ISBN-10 : 1591451876
- ISBN-13 : 978-1591451877
- Item Weight : 1.08 pounds
- Dimensions : 6.5 x 1 x 9.75 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #1,664 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #7 in Medical General Psychology
- #13 in Marriage
- #19 in Love & Romance (Books)
- Customer Reviews:
About the author
Dr. Emerson Eggerichs is an internationally known public speaker on the topic of marriage, parenting, communication and more. Based on over three decades of counseling as well as scientific and biblical research, Dr. Eggerichs developed the Love and Respect Marriage Conference which he presents to live audiences around the country. This dynamic and life-changing conference is impacting the world resulting in the healing and restoration of countless relationships.
Well known as a dynamic speaker, Dr. Eggerichs has spoken to audiences across the spectrum. He has spoken to NFL owners and coaches, PGA players and their spouses and the New York Giants at their stadium in NJ. But most honoring to him was being invited by the military brass to speak to the troops in Iraq.
Dr. Eggerichs has graduate degrees from Wheaton College and Dubuque Seminary and a Ph.D. in Child and Family Ecology from Michigan State University. He has authored 14 books, including the New York Times bestseller Love and Respect, which is a Platinum and Book of the Year award winner, selling over 1.6 million copies.
Prior to launching the Love and Respect Conferences, Dr. Eggerichs was the senior pastor of Trinity Church in Lansing, MI for nearly 20 years. Emerson and Sarah have been married for 40 years and have three adult children. He is the Founder and President of Love and Respect Ministries.
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Past marriage suggestions typically push the man to changing his nature and becoming more feminine in response to his love seeking wife. This author points out that God didn't make man feminine, so why should he change? He does offer many suggestions as to how to understand what a wife is searching for and how best to communicate to her needs and feelings. The opposite is true for women. God didn't make women to have more body than mind need, as men. Why try to make one turn into the other? The answer, according to "Love & Respect" is the husband learning to see the woman's need for love needs, and for the wife noting the man's needs and different ways of coping.
Thus, mutual understanding is as important as mutual communication. But...communication must be in a form recognized by the spouse. This need-meeting takes into consideration not only Biblical principals, but new scientific brain function evidence. They seem to go hand in hand.
This is not simply a Christian approach, although Dr. Eggerichs pulls no punches about his own beliefs and pulls scripture to back many statements. Also the book is endorsed and supported by Dr. Dobson and "Focus on the Family."
Having remarried after becoming a widower, I have duel opportunity to look at the legitimacy of what is written. This is solid marriage relationship instruction. Highly recommended, at any age.
A PERFECT WEDDING GIFT FOR THE NEW BRIDE & GROOM, any faith.
My wife and I love the large print, due to aging eyes, but it also makes the book pages turn faster.
Part One: THE CRAZY CYCLE defines the problem of communication between man and female in a new light. No blame, just different.
Part Two: THE ENERGIZING CYCLE is the meat. It takes you thorough the female needs of Closeness,Openness,Understanding,Peacemaking,Loyalty,Esteem. Then it looks at the male's needs of Conquest,Hierarchy,Authority,Insight,Relationship,Sexuality.
"Not wrong, just different." Part 2 may be all you need to read.
Part Three: THE REWARDED CYCLE concludes the pink and blue differences and opportunity to improve any marriage, even those not in danger. Includes a generous appendix of things to do together to help your love and respect grow.
Also recommended is a set of DVDs with this author presenting the material of this book. Good for groups or couples. Not pricey when you consider the excellent results. The author is quite a humerus, entertaining presenter.
A MUST for church, family counselor, and public library shelves.
This book was recommended to me by a woman who became my close friend on the missions field. She was a very wise woman who was married with children, both she and her husband in the ministry, with many years of marriage already behind them, and their relationship just "glowed". There was something about them that just drew me in. I am at the age where I could meet someone and be married within a short period of time, and she was so loving and patient in explaining many of these principles and why they were so, then said if I could read any book on marriage this would be the one to read.
I recommend this book for everyone. I am still single, with no marriage partner even on the radar, but I feel this book has been so helpful in explaining the inner workings of both men and women that anyone old enough to consider having a boyfriend or girlfriend SHOULD read this book. It really removes the mystery of how to talk to people and proves over and over again that doing things in a loving and respectful manner will bring rewards for everyone. I especially recommend this book to those that have not yet graduated high school. This is quite the education! And will bless them far more than any academics they can learn at school. These are life lessons of an incalculable nature. Priceless.
Thanks again to Dr. Eggerichs for blessing us with his experience and the wisdom he was given.
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Understanding the differences between men and women has helped me understand needs that I have that I haven't been able to put words to.
I see the principles at work in both positive and negative ways in different relationships around me.