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The Etiquette of Illness: What to Say When You Can't Find the Words Hardcover – April 17, 2004
What should I say when I hear that my friend has cancer? How can I help but not get in the way? How do I let my loved ones know what I need?
The Etiquette of Illness is a wise, encouraging, and essential guide to navigating the complex terrain of illness. This collection of anecdotes and insights will help those who feel awkward and unsure about responding to a friend, colleague, or relative who is suffering. The book is also for people who are ill and want to engage with their loved ones effectively. We read about a range of people who are dealing with chronic illness, doctor-patient communications, and end-of-life issues-and who are striving to find their way with awareness and compassion.
Drawing on her years of counseling people with serious illness, as well as her own experiences with cancer, Susan Halpern presents an insightful book of the utmost relevance for patients, their caregivers, and their family and friends - a group which will, at some point, include all of us.
Susan P. Halpern is a social worker and psychotherapist. She is the founder of the New York Cancer Help Program and a staff associate at the Commonweal Cancer Help Program. She lives with her husband, near their children and grandchildren in Berkeley, California. This is her first book.
The Etiquette of Illness is a finalist for the Books for a Better Life award.
The Etiquette of Illness is an An Amazon "Editor's Pick" for Best Book of the Year (2004).
- Print length256 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherBloomsbury USA
- Publication dateApril 17, 2004
- Dimensions6.14 x 1.03 x 7.43 inches
- ISBN-101582343837
- ISBN-13978-1582343839
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"Intensely personal and full of captivating stories, The Etiquette of Illness emmbeds practical advice in easily accessible prose." -- Christine K. Cassel, M.D., MACP, president of the American Board of Internal Med
"Practical and vastly compassionate. I recommend it to anyone who wants to visitt a seriously sick friend." -- Daniel Goleman
"This is the most helpful book for hard times that I have read in years." -- Bill Moyers
"This moving book has a message that shines with wisdom and hope. Susan's advicee is sound and useful." -- Andrew Weil, M.D.
"Valuable and gratifying...Susan Halpern gives us words when our own are most liikely to fail us." -- Jon Kabat-Zinn
"Wise, compassionate and very down-to-earth, this book illuminates our relationnship with illness and with each other." -- Joseph Goldstein
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- Publisher : Bloomsbury USA; 1st edition (April 17, 2004)
- Language : English
- Hardcover : 256 pages
- ISBN-10 : 1582343837
- ISBN-13 : 978-1582343839
- Item Weight : 10.4 ounces
- Dimensions : 6.14 x 1.03 x 7.43 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #733,224 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #74,388 in Self-Help (Books)
- #79,428 in Health, Fitness & Dieting (Books)
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This book gave me some good tools. Written by an author who was gravely ill she tells what she and others need to hear or not hear when faced with their eminent death or having to cope with a loss of their health. The moral support
and the complexity of coping with how to get through the reality of their crisis given to you in this insightful book.
When you are in a situation where you need the right words this will be a good resource. She explains how to find out how you can be of the best service and ease the way for them.
The author shared her story and that of others about to leave this world and how we can help them on their terms.
I learned about this book shortly after my grandson was diagnosed with brain cancer. It has helped me understand his needs, and communicate with more ease. We all eventually will deal with the illness and loss of those we love and we want to give our best to them. This information makes it easier to do that.