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Say You're One of Them Hardcover – June 9, 2008

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Uwem Akpan's stunning stories humanize the perils of poverty and violence so piercingly that few readers will feel they've ever encountered Africa so immediately.  The eight-year-old narrator of "An Ex-Mas Feast" needs only enough money to buy books and pay fees in order to attend school. Even when his twelve-year-old sister takes to the streets to raise these meager funds, his dream can't be granted. Food comes first. His family lives in a street shanty in Nairobi, Kenya, but their way of both loving and taking advantage of each other strikes a universal chord.
In the second of his stories published in a
New Yorker special fiction issue, Akpan takes us far beyond what we thought we knew about the tribal conflict in Rwanda. The story is told by a young girl, who, with her little brother, witnesses the worst possible scenario between parents. They are asked to do the previously unimaginable in order to protect their children. This singular collection will also take the reader inside Nigeria, Benin, and Ethiopia, revealing in beautiful prose the harsh consequences for children of life in Africa.
Akpan's voice is a literary miracle, rendering lives of almost unimaginable deprivation and terror into stories that are nothing short of transcendent. 
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Starred Review. Nigerian-born Jesuit priest Akpan transports the reader into gritty scenes of chaos and fear in his rich debut collection of five long stories set in war-torn Africa. An Ex-mas Feast tells the heartbreaking story of eight-year-old Jigana, a Kenyan boy whose 12-year-old sister, Maisha, works as a prostitute to support her family. Jigana's mother quells the children's hunger by having them sniff glue while they wait for Maisha to earn enough to bring home a holiday meal. In Luxurious Hearses, Jubril, a teenage Muslim, flees the violence in northern Nigeria. Attacked by his own Muslim neighbors, his only way out is on a bus transporting Christians to the south. In Fattening for Gabon, 10-year-old Kotchikpa and his younger sister are sent by their sick parents to live with their uncle, Fofo Kpee, who in turn explains to the children that they are going to live with their prosperous godparents, who, as Kotchikpa pieces together, are actually human traffickers. Akpan's prose is beautiful and his stories are insightful and revealing, made even more harrowing because all the horror—and there is much—is seen through the eyes of children. (June) Read a web-exclusive q&a with Uwem Akpan at www.publishersweekly.com/akpan.
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Adult/High School—With the intensity of Chinua Achebe's Things Fall Apart, Say You're One of Them tells of the horrors faced by young people throughout Africa. Akpan uses five short stories (though at well over 100 pages, both "Luxurious Hearses" and "Fattening for Gabon" are nearly stand-alone novels in their own right) to bring to light topics ranging from selling children in Gabon to the Muslim vs. Christian battles in Ethiopia. The characters face choices that most American high school students will never have to—whether or not to prostitute oneself to provide money for one's homeless family, whether to save oneself, even if it means sacrificing a beloved sibling in the process. The selections are peppered with a mix of English, French, and a variety of African tongues, and some teens may find themselves reading at a slower pace than usual, but the impact of the stories is well worth the effort. The collection offers a multitude of learning opportunities and would be well suited for "Authors not born in the United States" reading and writing assignments. Teens looking for a more upbeat, but still powerful, story may prefer Bryce Courtenay's The Power of One (Random, 1989).—Sarah Krygier, Solano County Library, Fairfield, CA
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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Little, Brown and Company; 1st edition (June 9, 2008)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Hardcover ‏ : ‎ 368 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 0316113786
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0316113786
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 1.05 pounds
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 5.75 x 1.25 x 8.5 inches
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Uwem Akpan was born in Ikot Akpan Eda in the Niger Delta in Nigeria. Uwem’s short stories and autobiographical pieces have appeared in the special editions of The New Yorker, the Oprah magazine, Hekima Review, the Nigerian Guardian, America, etc.

His first book, Say You’re One of Them, was published in 2008 by Little, Brown, after a protracted auction. It made the “Best of the Year” list at People magazine, World Street Journal, and other places. The New York Times made it the Editor’s Choice, and Entertainment Weekly listed it at # 27 in their Best of the Decade. Say You’re One of Them won the Commonwealth Prize (Africa Region), the Open Book Prize, and the Hurston/Wright Legacy Award. The collection of short stories was the 2009 Oprah Book Club selection. A New York Times and Wall Street Journal #1 bestseller, it has been translated into 12 languages.

His second book and first novel, New York, My Village, will be published in Nov 2021 by WW Norton. An immigrant story, Uwem writes about NYC with the same promise and pain we saw in his African cities of Say You’re One of Them. “New York City has always mystified me since I first spent two weeks in the Bronx in 1993,” he says. “It was only when I lived in Manhattan in 2013 that I began to understand the metro system, to visit the different neighborhoods, to enjoy the endless ethnic dishes. It didn’t also take long before I discovered the crazy underbelly of this city.”

Uwem teaches in the University of Florida's writing program.

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Customers find the book thought-provoking, with one review noting how it expands readers' minds to understand how others live. The stories are told from children's perspectives, and one customer mentions how it helped them understand Africa on a more human level. The book receives positive feedback for its pacing, with one review describing it as uncompromising. However, the readability and emotional content receive mixed reactions, with some finding it an amazing read while others consider it extremely difficult to read, and while some find it emotionally stirring, others describe it as disturbing.

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"...It is very powerfully written, and is the most haunting of the stories, in terms of both theme and in how the story is told...." Read more

"...Akpan personalizes the violence in a series of hard-hitting, fast-moving stories that make us understand it in a new, visceral way...." Read more

"...All the stories hook quickly, but none as quickly as `Fattening for Gabon', which begins: "Selling your child or nephew could be more difficult..." Read more

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"...into the lives of the characters, Uwem Akpan follows the humanist tradition in literature, which evokes empathy and compassion of a kind and degree..." Read more

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"...It informs, saddens, and, in its own unique way, has the ability to raise us up at the same time. Powerful." Read more

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Customers appreciate the storytelling in the book, which features voices of child victims from Africa, with one customer noting how it helps understand the continent on a more human level.

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"...These five stories are in a way voices of the child victims of Africa, told through the prop of fiction (a doll, a drawing), empty of ideological or..." Read more

"...Author Uwem Akpan has given a voice to the neglected children of Africa. May God's favor continue to light his path." Read more

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Customers appreciate the pacing of the book, describing it as unflinching and uncompromising, with one customer noting its strength in the protagonists and another finding it riveting.

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  • Reviewed in the United States on March 30, 2016
    In five short stories, all set in different parts of Africa, Akpan, an African Jesuit priest educated in America, shows us life through the eyes of African children. In “An Ex-mas Feast,” Akpan pours out Nairobian poverty on the page so vividly that it takes a reader’s breath away. In “In My Parents’ Bedroom,” he shows us a loving, educated, enlightened Rwandan family ripped apart by tribalism. In “Luxurious Hearses,” he narrates the ultimate sacrifice of a teenage boy to the bloodlust of people running for their lives in western Africa.

    It’s a difficult book to read. Because of the content, sometimes continuing to turn the pages is an effort. And because Akpan sprinkles the stories generously with the mélange of languages spoken in Africa, parsing the meaning of what people are saying can be hard too. But on those difficult-to-turn-and-understand pages, Akpan always splashes a generous measure of the best of humanity: love, loyalty, responsibility, empathy, self-sacrifice, and faith.

    In these stories of children’s lives, general themes emerge: the variety of religions and languages in Africa, the power of faith, the role of the media, the relationship between men and women, the struggle of families to stay together, the driving force of the sex trade, the relentless force of tribalism, and always the plight of the children.

    Someone in my bookclub described the book as “beautifully written and utterly heartbreaking” – as the kind of book a person can’t just read. Afterward, there’s the need to do something.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on June 3, 2012
    There is a view of mankind held by some religions and political philosophers, that man is inherently depraved, which to them means that it is only either religious observance or the power of the state that can civilize. Anyone reading the five short stories by Uwem Akpan, collected under the title "Say You're One of Them," will find powerful support for the inherently depraved school of thought. The stories, two of novella length, are set in several African countries, such as Nigeria, Kenya, Ethiopia, Gabon, and Rwanda, well-known for their violence, human rights abuses and atrocities, Each story, is told through the eyes of a child-observer. These are tales of unrelenting horror, cruelty, and violent death; they are grisly, and if anyone is looking for indications of hope or redemption, they will have to look elsewhere.

    What turns what could be reportage into art or literature, is the simple beauty and creativity of Uwem Akpan`s writing, as well as the skillful use of dialogue and detail. By putting the reader into the lives of the characters, Uwem Akpan follows the humanist tradition in literature, which evokes empathy and compassion of a kind and degree that no news account can accomplish. The author, an African does not preach, moralize, blame, nor does he provide any explanations of the political, religious, tribal, sectarian and economic conflicts giving rise to the horrors he describes. Uwem Akpan does not tell us what to do, how to feel, whom to blame, what lessons he wishes us to be taught, or the like. These are stories to read and think about, deeply.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on November 6, 2009
    I had never heard of this book until last month, when a member of my book club suggested reading it for our November 2009 meeting. While I believe that the subject matter (the horrific state of affairs in several African countries) is very important to call to our attention as Western readers, I didn't feel like the writing was especially strong. In my mind, the book is strong on content, but weak in style and execution. For this reason, I would give it 3 1/2 stars.

    Each of the five stories in this collection focuses on one main character, who is a child, while also giving us interesting secondary characters -- adults who are wrestling with the situation at hand in ways that the young narrator may not fully understand. The first two stories were very similar in both point of view and tone, and even the endings were practically identical. The two stories "Fattening for Gabon" and "Luxurious Hearses" were more like novellas in that they were each over 100 pages long. "Luxurious Hearses" was more interesting to me in the sense that the story gave me insight into the various religious and ethnic conflicts sweeping through parts of Africa.

    The fifth and last story in the collection, "My Parents' Bedroom" was the one that resonated the most with me. It is set in Rwanda, and gives us a brief glimpse of how the genocide that has taken place there affects one nine-year-old girl. It is very powerfully written, and is the most haunting of the stories, in terms of both theme and in how the story is told. Because this story is told from the first-person point of view of that nine-year-old girl as she experiences these events (and because it is not told from her adult perspective), we, as readers, are kept as much in the dark about what is happening to her parents and in her community as she is.

    Perhaps because I am an English professor, I read with a more critical eye for style and details, and so the writing itself, as I mentioned above, seemed artificial in places. As an example, the first two stories are told from the point of view of a male child who is now an adult. Each of those two narrators has obviously escaped the poverty of his background since the narrator speaks in a voice that is not at all accented by the regional dialects used when giving his point of view as a child, yet there is no explanation made of this gap. We are led to believe that the child escaped his situation, but the critical distance between the two points of view is never fully acknowledged.

    That being said, this book is an important book in that it brings to light the horrific circumstances that children (and adults) in Africa are going through, and it has already raised much awareness of the wars and conflicts that we Americans often know so little about. For that reason, I believe it deserves to be read.
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  • Denise F Gill
    5.0 out of 5 stars Captivating and Well-Written
    Reviewed in Canada on May 16, 2020
    I read this book years ago, and still get chills thinking about some of these stories. The writer is very illustrative and skilled at bringing the narrative to life. The sadness of these stories was enough to make me emotional, and they serve as an eye-opener to the things that have and are still going on in some parts of Africa.
  • Hundemama
    5.0 out of 5 stars sehr gut lesebar
    Reviewed in Germany on September 8, 2010
    Das Buch ist ziemlich ergreifend und man kann es kaum aus der Hand legen. Ist ein muss!!
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  • Mdem
    5.0 out of 5 stars Powerful,sad short stories that make you remember the children
    Reviewed in the United Kingdom on February 25, 2013
    I heard about this book from Oprah's book club.

    This book is a collection of short stories set in Africa from a child's perspective. An Ex-mas feast is a story about a family in Kenya living in the slums, who survive off the earnings of their daughter who is a child prostitute. Fattening for Gabon is about children who are trafficked by their uncle. This was my favourite story, as at the end, there is some hope, you are left not knowing what the fate of the children will be. Their uncle also struggles with what he has done, and has a change of heart, before he is dealt with. What Language is that, is a story about two girls in Ethiopia who have to stop talking to each other because of their religion. Luxurious Hearses is set in Nigeria, and is about a young boy who has to flee because of the hatred between Christians and Muslims. My Parents bedroom is set in Rwanda, and is horrific, as two children whose parents are Tutsi and Hutu, witness the bloodshed within their own family, when the two tribes turn against each other.

    The book is not an easy read, but touches on some of the horrors that have taken place, and continue to take place in Africa.Tribalism, Poverty, Religous hatred, Child trafficking still go on today. What I was left with, is who remembers the children.
  • None
    4.0 out of 5 stars Great Read. Unique.
    Reviewed in the United Kingdom on March 30, 2025
    The plot of this story takes you across different settings from Nigeria, to Kenya to Rwanda. Some troubling descriptions about the vulnerabilities and realities faced by Africa's children. As opposed to keeping to the stereotypical image of hunger or starving children with swollen bellies, "Say You're One of Them" goes deeper, giving the reader a chance to relate the events to characters, everyday life and even family. One the shocking images from this book that has stuck in my mind was of an able-bodied, apt girl who ended up becoming a fulltime prostitute to put her sister in school and to be able to support her family. This book portrays such characters as people which draws the reader in in a way that's clever and unique.
  • Phoof's Mom
    4.0 out of 5 stars Great writer, vivid imagery
    Reviewed in Canada on December 2, 2021
    The first story is long, so at first I thought it was a novel, not a collection. I am now on the 3rd one, so def a collection. Very engaging, but be aware that the author has many African phrases in italics throughout when the characters are speaking, and some 'decoding' becomes part of the game! :-)