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The Vanishing American Adult: Our Coming-of-Age Crisis--and How to Rebuild a Culture of Self-Reliance Hardcover – May 16, 2017
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In an era of safe spaces, trigger warnings, and an unprecedented election, the country's youth are in crisis. Senator Ben Sasse warns the nation about the existential threat to America's future.
Raised by well-meaning but overprotective parents and coddled by well-meaning but misbegotten government programs, America's youth are ill-equipped to survive in our highly-competitive global economy.
Many of the coming-of-age rituals that have defined the American experience since the Founding: learning the value of working with your hands, leaving home to start a family, becoming economically self-reliant―are being delayed or skipped altogether. The statistics are daunting: 30% of college students drop out after the first year, and only 4 in 10 graduate. One in three 18-to-34 year-olds live with their parents.
From these disparate phenomena: Nebraska Senator Ben Sasse who as president of a Midwestern college observed the trials of this generation up close, sees an existential threat to the American way of life.
In The Vanishing American Adult, Sasse diagnoses the causes of a generation that can't grow up and offers a path for raising children to become active and engaged citizens. He identifies core formative experiences that all young people should pursue: hard work to appreciate the benefits of labor, travel to understand deprivation and want, the power of reading, the importance of nurturing your body―and explains how parents can encourage them.
Our democracy depends on responsible, contributing adults to function properly―without them America falls prey to populist demagogues. A call to arms, The Vanishing American Adult will ignite a much-needed debate about the link between the way we're raising our children and the future of our country.
- Print length320 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherSt. Martin's Press
- Publication dateMay 16, 2017
- Dimensions6.42 x 1.16 x 9.6 inches
- ISBN-101250114403
- ISBN-13978-1250114402
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“Sasse has published a book of political philosophy in the form of a guide to parenting.” ―George Will, The Washington Post
“The Vanishing American Adult is written as a reflection on the purpose and nature of education… At its core, the book also pleads for something greater: the rehabilitation of shared values in a time of intense difference; a focus on culture as the deepest challenge of politics; and the ability to imagine virtue as part of who we are as citizens.” ―The Atlantic
“Sasse write well and entertainingly, with wit and erudition, but never pedantic in advancing his ideas. And those ideas have great merit.” ―The Washington Times
“Sasse doesn’t pretend to offer a silver bullet, but he offers clear steps for nudging our kids out of their comfort zones and toward curiosity and that elusive compulsion… fantastic advice and chock-full of it.” ―Chicago Tribune
"If you want to raise a healthy and happy family in a rapidly changing world, [The Vanishing American Adult] will provide you with copious notes and ideas...Ultimately, this book has the potential to do what so few books can promise: make you a better person." ?The Daily Beast
“Heartfelt advice… an earnest critique of American youth.” ―Kirkus Reviews
“Deeply thoughtful, delightfully personal, and bravely ecumenical in scope, Sasse’s guide for stemming the tide of delayed responsibility showcases what is both practical and possible.” ―Booklist
“Sasse’s belief that meaningful work gives life purpose, grounded as it is in ancient philosophy and lived experience, is hard to argue with.” ―The Weekly Standard
"The Vanishing American Adult offers a worthwhile reminder that our families are far more important than politics, and developing the next generation needs to be addressed without the help of Washington D.C." ―Lincoln Journal Star
"Why do you do what you do? For many American parents, caught up in a swirl of activity and competition, it might be difficult, if we're really honest with ourselves, to find an immediate and satisfying answer. The Vanishing American Adult offers a grand opportunity to stop, slow down, and think." ―National Review
"I know Ben Sasse as one of the most important emerging voices in our national dialogue―plain-spoken, brilliant, and unafraid to speak his mind. Whether we agree or disagree, when he speaks―I'm listening. And when he writes, I'm definitely reading." ―U.S. Senator Cory Booker
"Ben Sasse is a thoughtful father, historian and Senator. And he has written a non-political book about one of the most important policy topics of the day―how to raise self-reliant and adventurous children. Any parent will read this alternating between "damn right" and guilt pangs. The book is practical, helpful and conversational. I wish it had been written 20 years ago!" ―U.S. Senator Tim Kaine
"Historian, dad, and former college president Ben Sasse has nailed it: we're failing our kids. Each generation must mold the next into solid citizens at home, at work, and in the city square. This book is a well-timed rebuke and a time-tested recipe―just what America needs." ―U.S. Senator Marco Rubio
"Couple years ago, somebody told me a senator from Nebraska was tweeting about the essential business of castrating bulls. I didn't know who Ben Sasse was, but I was intrigued his use of social media. I've since met him, and I like him. If you read this book, you will too. It's excellent. In particular, the "Lessons from the Ranch" section should be required reading for every parent, every child, and every elected official in America. This really is a book for everyone―well, except the bulls." ―Mike Rowe, Creator and Host of Dirty Jobs
"Being an adolescent myself, this book shed some light on my situation and I'm glad my wife was kind enough to read it to me. In all seriousness, even though my alter ego doesn't read, I'm a dad and I do. Ben is dead on point on every page and this book should become required reading for every parent. Bravo Ben!! (P.S. Please send another copy because I've got pudding on this one.)" ―Dan Whitney, A.K.A., Larry the Cable Guy
"Y'all, a senator wrote an interesting book! That's basically a miracle. Somewhere between "the kids are all right" and "get off my lawn" exists Ben Sasse's The Vanishing American Adult, and it's a fascinating place to be. At a time when adolescence has become a destination, rather than a journey, Sasse asks us to wrestle with remaking it. Let’s get kids moving again through the hard work of becoming grown-ups. Avoiding the process could be especially perilous for a nation founded by a bunch of young people with an audacious idea and the will to fight for it, in the hopes that generations to come would be gritty enough do the same." ―Mary Katharine Ham, CNN
"As we struggle to overcome the spiritual decay of the digital age, it's incredibly heartening that at least one man in Washington gets it and wants to help." ―Mollie Z. Hemingway, Senior Editor, The Federalist
“Ben Sasse is a good Senator, a great thinker and an even better writer. His book tells the truth about what truly ails America. It’s not partisan politics. It’s us – our families, and our loss of confidence in the future. He argues effectively that our national destiny depends less on what happens in Washington and more on what we do at home. But take heart – Sasse offers powerful solutions, both personal and universal, that will restore our faith in the future and our responsibilities to each other as parents, neighbors, and citizens of the greatest country on earth.” ―Dr. Frank Luntz, CBS News & Fox News Analyst
“Ben Sasse’s book is not an angry diatribe against the younger generation. Nor is it a call to return to an idyllic vision of days gone by. Rather, it’s a practical, insightful call to all Americans to reject passivity, embrace initiative, and boldly approach the future with purpose and vision.” ―Jim Daly, President, Focus on the Family
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I also appreciated that Sasse's work is written without an ounce of condescension. Rather, it's clear throughout the book that Sasse's book is a labor of love, hope, and genuine concern for the present and coming generation.
Some highlights for me were:
1. The sections on education in America. Sasse does a great job tracing the historical changes in American education. The ideological and practical comparisons between Stuart-Mill, Rousseau, and Dewey were enlightening. Learning about Deweys influence on American education made me reflect on my own educational experience and the convictions I formed therein. Sasse traces the development (degeneration?) of education in America and provides some helpful antidotes to our current intellectual crisis.
2. The Analysis of pre vs. post-industrial America. Sasse does a great job highlighting the differences between pre and post industrial America, especially as it relates to a production vs. consumption mindset among families. He clearly articulate how the good life is achieved and experienced through the cultivation of virtue, which require virtue-making activities that are woven into the fabric of one's life. He also provides clear evidence for how the industrial revolution disrupted the emotional connection between children and their fathers, fathers and their families, and the nuclear family in general. This was a great section to reflect on as the parent of a 6 year old boy.
3. Sasse insists we must reckon with ideas and beliefs that are not our own. In order for us to understand what we truly believe and why we live the way we do, we must develop a more engaged and reflective citizenry. We should not shy away from hard ideas that challenge our pre-conceived notions (about education, religion, economics, etc.), but should instead reckon with the best thinkers from both sides and become a more convictional people. Passively adopting the values and practices of the culture through osmosis will not produce thoughtful, reflective, virtuous people. Instead, it will leave us ignorant of the ideological and practical trojan horses that come in the name of comfort and progress, but that rob us of the values necessary to maintain a civil and resilient society.
4. Sasse's speaks about America—it's founding, development, people, and its present state—with great insight and clarity. I found myself feeling a fresh appreciation for American ideals, especially as it relates to the founding virtues of freedom, civility, and equality. Sasse acknowledged that America was not and is not perfect, but he is compelling in his articulation of the ideas America was founded upon.
In a sense, Sasse provides a philosophy of American life. One in which hard work, personal responsibility, intellectual development, virtue formation, and public service are chief values and personal bi-products.
The only draw back I observed is that Sasse seems to downplay the importance of leisure, recreation, and rest in his attempt to correct the pampered state of American adults. Aside from this one observation, I found Sasse's book to be incredibly helpful and sobering.
If every young adult read this book and put it's ideas into practice, I can't help but think America would be in a much better place than it is today.
Part 1 is an in-depth discussion of the problem that is aptly described in the subtitle: Our Coming of Age Crisis and How to Rebuild a Culture of Self-Reliance. While this part of the book is initially discouraging, I think Senator Sasse presents a well thought out discussion of how the changes in our culture have led to an unhealthy elongation of the maturing process. Even if we do not all agree on the reasons, there is a general consensus that the problem is real and growing. I found myself especially agreeing with his synopsis of the problems within our public school system and the lack of creative thinking that is exacerbating the issues. While it is true that Sasse choose to homeschool, he does not hold that method up as the only viable solution. Instead, he inspires you (the reader) to work on your own solutions. His main drive is that all of us begin to think of creative ways to individually solve some deeply rooted problems.
Part 2 is full of ideas. These are his ideas and are laid out as options, but, again, his main focus is to inspire the reader to imagine how they can come up with equally creative solutions. I feel this is the area I most admired concerning this book. He does not embrace a “one size fits all” approach but encourages the reader to think openly and honestly about the world their children live in and find inspiration for change in any way possible. A great example of this type of thinking is when he discusses his bookcase and the books he chose to put in it. My list would vary greatly from his…but THAT is the point. His goal is to inspire others to be proactive and creative while solving a difficult problem.
This book is a deep book. You will need time to process it and will need to read portions multiple times. The writing style, while easy to comprehend, is quite sophisticated. This is not light reading and is best consumed by taking the time to adequately process it.
I would like to address the religious aspect of this book. Ben Sasse is profession Christian and his world view is apparent in this book. As a Christian, I understood where he was coming from theologically and that enhanced my reading of the book as I happen to agree with him. However, there is PLENTY to gain from this book for those of you who are either a different religion or non-religious. This is, ultimately, a practical book. He does not hit you over the head with heavy doses of theology nor suggest that this style of thinking only works if you are a born-again Christian. As with many other issues facing our country, we can all learn from each other if we are willing to set aside our prejudices and just take the time to truly listen and comprehend what is being said.
I highly recommend this book to anyone who is concerned about the mindset of our country. I will be reading this book several times as I work on implementing the articulately delivered advice.
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